book excerpt:

“My underlying reason for the abuse, control and manipulation was in some sick way to keep Teri dependent on me so she would not leave me.” (page 51)


“I became a master of manipulation making everything look like somehow it was all her fault and I was the victim.” (page 26)

Testimonies

View testimonies from readers

View Testimonies

20 Types of Abuse

Red flags that you may be in a dysfunctional relationship

View Types of Abuse

My Book

View my current offerings of books.

View Book Info

Coaching

Someone who's "been there done that"

Mentoring for the recovering abuser

email:

"I just wanted to thank you for writing the emotional abuse book. It was good to get your perspective as a former abuser. Your honesty and vulnerability poured out of my kindle. I rejoice with you in your healing and I grieve with you over the loss of your marriage... Thank you from the bottom of my healing heart!"

Former Abuser Talks About His 30-Years of Abuse, its Cause and Devastating Effects

email:

"I could not stand to wait a minute to tell you what a profound effect your book has had on me. In a lot of ways, I felt like I was reading about my own marriage. There were a few extra layers for me to deal wiith in my relationship, but I think abuse is abuse, no matter the form. I think people will go to extraordinary lengths to do what they think will help them avoid pain, successful or not."

Please check out my YouTube Channel for videos helping the abuser as well as the abused.

Youtube Logo

book excerpt:

“Anger was always my friend and constant companion for as long as I can remember in this relationship. It was always my go to weapon of choice when I needed a win.” (page 16)


“Yet outside the home I was the nicest guy you would ever want to meet. Most abusers are.” (page 23) (page 26)